Athens
I had to put off my Athens story because it was A) daunting B) going to talk a lot of time and C) so epic I wanted to make sure I was in the right mind set to do it justice.
Those of you who know me know that I love Greek philosophy and have gone through some serious Greek Mythology phases in my life as well, so going to Athens was up there on my bucket list. Fortunately it did not disappoint. Well, to be completely honest the city itself is nothing spectacular; in fact it is dirty, plain, and boring. (It’s actually quite shocking because the ancient Greeks were known for their glorious architecture and magnificent temples. They perfected the combination of art, beauty, and knowledge to create a civilization of superior culture. And you look at modern Greece and you kinda have to wonder ‘what happened’? How can they settle for such plain buildings and dirty streets in light of such a history?) But, then again, beauty doesn’t always have to reside in stone or marble; in the context of modern Greece I would have to say it now resides in their beautiful traditions and family like interactions. The Greek way of life is so fun, so inviting, and so unifying that it doesn't surprise me they hold so fast to such customs. Greeks don’t cat call like Italians or invite you in off the streets like in Sicily, but once you are indoors as a cultural insider a whole new world is opened up to you that isn’t obtainable from sight seeing or wondering the streets. What made Athens better than the rest was ironically not the Parthenon or Temple of Zeus, although they were breath taking and life changing experiences within themselves, but what made Athens truly memorable were the people.
But before I get into my epic story let me set the scene and give you a little background. The first day we left our janky little hostel early in the morning, partly because we wanted to get a head start on the day and partly because it was so sketchy we didn’t want to be there anymore J … So anyway, we arrive at the acropolis around 10am and head straight for the ruins. Students of the European Union get in free to all the major attractions so we bypassed all the lines and saw Hadrian’s library, the ancient agora, the Roman agora, the Parthenon, a temple dedicated to Athena and Poseidon, the theater of Dionysius, and the ancient road surrounding the acropolis all in one day. While sitting on a couple thousand year old rock and staring at the birth place of democracy, I started to imagine history’s most inspirational philosophers and brilliant thinkers of all time walking the very ground I stood on. It was a profound experience and made me proud to be a human. But at the same time while looking at these massive columns still standing from 500 B.C I happened to notice the trees behind them; and I thought to myself that while we are so impressed by what humans accomplished we sometimes forget to be that awe struck by what God accomplished. That tree stands firmer, with more beauty and more grace than any human creation in history. No matter how hard we try we only borrow from what God has already created and any attempt to replicate will forever be doomed to second best.
After sight seeing we wondered around the local flea markets and had one of the best Greek meals of our entire vacation for dinner that night. Pretty epic day. But because we got so much done the first day we were kind of at a loss of what to do next. So naturally I drag both my roommates to the middle of nowhere Athens to see Plato’s academy where he taught his famous protégées and presumably wrote his legendary works of literature. As excited as I was I have to say it was a failure because the academy, or what’s left of the academy, is a pile of rocks buried under dirt and grass in the middle of an abandoned park. But like the bible says, God works all things together for good, because as we are walking back Mallory gets bird poop in her hair and so we run into a small, corner restaurant to try to wash it out. In the restaurant are a couple old men sitting at the bar, the women bar tenders around 30-40 years old, and three men sitting at a table drinking beer. At one point one of the men pokes his head in to see if we needed in help – apparently we were making a lot of commotion for being in a bathroom – but once they find out it is because Mallory was pooped on they just say “MONEY” and invite us to have beers with them. The waitresses brings out these little shot glasses and fill them with beer and we look at each other, smile, and dive right in. Soon after they bring out these meat dishes, olives, and beats that they literally force-feed us with telling us it is traditional Greek and we must try.
Let me fast forward a couple of hours to when we find ourselves dancing on the counters with Greek music playing saying OPPA! And VIVA ASPBERBADO! (which means drink till the end) and holding hands with everyone in the restaurant dancing in a circle the traditional Greek way, literally straight out of a movie. Let me also clarify that it is about 6pm by this point and we have already been there since 4pm. Anyway, then some of the street vendors come in with flowers and the old men buy countless bouquets and are ripping off the petals and throwing them at us. We are literally getting showered with flowers and handed flowers, more food, and more drinks constantly. At one point a woman even brought out this champagne bottle and a man grabs it and throws it on the floor and shouts OOPA! Basically it was nuts. They party harder and for longer than I have ever seen. The man who owned the restaurant came up to me at one point told me that it was nothing and if I wanted to see a real party to come back at 10pm. Finally the two guys we were with ask if we want to go get coffee. So we hop on the back of their motorcycles to go to his friends coffee shop and stop along the way to his cousins Gyros stand and get gyros and then go get coffee (also let me clarify that we didn’t spend a single cent this entire night). At one point they explained to us that they never get foreigners that far out of the main city center and were just so excited to show us their life and share their neighborhood with us. Seriously, throughout the night we had countless men and women come up to us saying that if we ever felt uncomfortable to just let them know and they would take us home and that they just wanted to make sure we were ok and not feeling pressured. It was the sweetest and most reassuring thing ever.
Continuing on: after coffee we then hop back on the motorcycles and Vespas and go to one of the guys house to meet his dad and they offer us some authentic Greek stress beads as gifts and of course give us more alcohol. Later on in the night we go back to the restaurant and literally start it all over again. This time the entire neighborhood and extended family found out they were partying with Americans and everyone showed up to join the fun. There was more dancing and OOPAing and more flowers and more traditional Greek shots.
Long story short we spend 10 hours with these people and had the most authentic Greek experience I think I could have ever asked for. It was a privilege to join them and be invited into their life. They were generous, fun, crazy, accepting, and accommodating. Needless to say I am a big fan of Greek people.
(O and did I mention that they truly are all named Nick, Nickos, Nicole, etc. Nickos had like three cousins that were also named Nickos… it was great!)
So that is basically my Athens story. I decided to cut everything else short so I could explain this one night in detail but the entire time was amazing and one of the best experiences of Europe so far!